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You Can Get What You Want Just By Asking For It

Could it possibly be that simple? Read on and be amazed…

Sometimes in order to get what you want or need in life (both personally and professionally), you need to be wiling to ask for it.

It sounds like a simple concept, but few people ask for what they really want.

It sounds like a simple concept, but few people ask for what they really want. Instead they hope or expect others (spouse, friends, boss, colleagues, etc.) to already know what’s on their mind. Not only can these unrealistic expectations lead to disappointment and frustration, but they can also result in anger and unsatisfying relationships.

Here are a few tips to help you get what you want by learning how to ask:

  • Create a clear-cut goal of what you want. Avoid vague concepts. For example, perhaps you want more help from your spouse—ask them to be in charge of cooking meals  two nights a week. After all, if you aren’t sure of exactly what will make you happy, how will anyone else know?
  • Don’t be afraid of how others will react when you ask. Many people hold back from asking because they anticipate a negative response. If something is important to you and the request is reasonable, just ask. It’s unfair to assume you’ll receive a negative response.
  • Get an outside perspective by asking someone you trust who’s unaffected by the issue for advice on how to approach your request. An outside view can help you articulate why the request is important to you.
  • Think  through your approach and ensure it’s portrayed in an inoffense manner that explains the feelings behind your request. Use “I” statements instead of “you“.
  • Avoid indirect comments and the belief that you shouldn’t have to ask.

Passive tactics will actually decrease your chances of getting what you really want. Instead you could wind up feeling upset and bitter, wondering why the other person can’t read your mind.

While it can be difficult to ask for certain things, life becomes a lot easier once you accept that the people in your life are often willing to help but aren’t mind readers.

Who knew it could be so easy?

The Ink Well’s monthly bulletin featured the ideas above and if you ever have printing or publishing needs, check them out . You won’t be disapppointed. www.inkwellchicago.com

Wise words to wind up this weeks posting.

Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing can help the man with the wrong mental attitude.”
Thomas Jefferson

and then from my favorite sage Ben Franklin:

  • A smile’s  an inexpensive way to change your looks.
  • Those who say it can’t be done are usually interrupted by others doing it.
  • One thing you can’t recycle is wasted time.
  • It’s better to be optimistic and a fool than be pessimistic and right.

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How to Make Your Business Profitable Right From The Start
How To Price Your Business Or Service For Biggest Profits
Secrets Of Creating Winning Mail Order Ads
14 Sure Fire Check Off Lists That Guarantee Huge Profits

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